I have had this crazy phobia of potty training Elizabeth. And just like any good fear, it only magnified the more I tried to ignore it. So this weekend, I decided I had procrastinated long enough and it was time to face it head on!
My biggest fear was how she would deal with #2. And just as suspected, she started begging me for a pull-up as soon as she felt the urge. I encouraged her to sit on the potty, and she actually did without crying. Then she said, "Mommy, Go Hide!" It took me a second to realize that she wanted me to get out of the bathroom. She usually hides when she's going #2, so I guess she thought that if she couldn't hide, then I at least had to let her be by herself. Of course I just stood right outside the door, and when she came running out yelling, "I did it!" I almost cried! I'm not even kidding.
We needed a change of scenery, so we continued our boot camp in the basement. That also let me relax a little since it's not new furniture down there.
This morning, only day 2, somehow I felt brave enough to go to church in her big girl panties. I told the nursery workers that this was her first time in public without a pull-up, and to come get me if she had an accident. They never came to get me so I was hopeful. Not only had she pee-peed once, she also went #2! In fact, she ran through the nursery halls yelling, "I went poo-poo!" So I guess, now my phobia should be my child shouting about her bowel movements in public.
Because it was such a beautiful day, I took the girls to the park after nap time. There is a port-a-potty on site (yuck) but I just had her pee before we left and did a lot of praying on our walk there. We only stayed for an hour before we went home, and she stayed dry the whole time!
I knew I pushed my luck all day on Sunday, so it surprised me when she had her first accident right before dinner while standing 10 feet from our toilet! It was just a little bit (didn't even get on the floor) and she caught herself doing it. Which is how she stopped and got herself to the bathroom Lesson learned: don't stop asking if she needs to go!
Thankfully she's already stopped asking for a treat after each time, and we'll start rewarding her for "good days." Tomorrow I'm sending her to school with a dozen panties and pants, so we'll see how this goes.
WHOO HOOO! Christy gave me a pep talk too and we've been doing great ever since! Go Elizabeth! Go mommy! Ha! Have a great week!
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